It’s supposed to be hard, and that’s exactly why you should do it

Artwork by my sis, Kate Faldin.

Important things in life don’t come easy. Nor should they. Education, self-learning, staying fit, staying financially stable, mentally sane and acute, etc. — all of these things require friction. They require work.

The hours to put in. The struggle of not knowing where to go next. The thrill of finding…

Even if you have oversized genitals.

Image credits to The Tab

At the beginning of the first season of the famous Netflix TV show, Sex Education, there’s a scene where the headmaster’s son — Adam — is so confused with himself, he decides to take ‘therapy sessions’ from a boy he frequently bullied (Otis).

Adam has two problems:

  1. His father is…

Be inefficient, undefined, and don’t have a daily routine.

A photo I took after a run last week. This is amazing Guildford, UK.

You are free by definition.

You don’t have to earn your freedom through money or status — it’s already there. Which is to say, you don’t HAVE to do anything. You can sit all day, everyday, on your couch and do nothing. Or you can do something. Either way, the choice is yours.

You are…

If something is not there, it’s not a priority.

Photo by Rohan on Unsplash

Calendars are great.

The power of having a Google Calendar with dedicated chunks of time is that you actually get to do stuff that matters.

Want to write a book? Dedicate 2 hours each day to write.

Want to exercise more? …

Sergey Faldin

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